long blue silk dress Whitney Night Size medium measures 57.5 from shoulder to hem Silk Dress Maxi - Silk

Always follow any special requests on the invite to ensure you show up dressed to impress

Ruffled sleeves and a cinched waist are a romantic spin on this otherwise simple gown

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I personally love challenging the traditional norms and opted for a chic black ensemble for my own Derby day, and it was a total hit

Interestingly, both were discovered in the same vintage lot I acquired back in 2011, making it a rare and sentimental find for any vintage enthusiast!

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